"To Have and To Hold"
"To Have and To Hold"
Everything you need to know for the weekend lives here. From travel and lodging details to what to pack and what to expect, this page is designed to help you arrive feeling prepared, relaxed, and ready to enjoy a few days at the ranch. If you’re wondering about something, there’s a good chance the answer is right here.
The easiest way to reach us is by flying into Santa Fe Regional Airport (SAF) or Albuquerque International Sunport (ABQ). Santa Fe is closer and quieter; Albuquerque offers more flight options and is about an hour’s drive away.
Yes. Renting a car is the easiest way to get around Santa Fe and reach shuttle pickup locations. If you plan to use the shuttles exclusively, a car may not be necessary. Parking is available at the ranch; however, it is limited and first come first served.
Note: Shuttles will only be available at hotels associated with the wedding event. See the “Lodging” section below for more information.
The venue address is:
Blame Her Ranch | 354 Co Rd B31A | Ribera, NM 87560
The ranch is about 45 minutes Southeast of Santa Fe. The final stretch is on dirt roads, and cell service is VERY limited – so be sure to download THESE DIRECTIONS in advance. We will do our best to provide event signage and mention geographical landmarks along the way. We strongly recommend arriving during daylight hours whenever possible.
Yes. Shuttles will be available at select times between Santa Fe and the ranch for scheduled events.
We will provide a shuttle schedule on this website as soon as possible. Please check back for updates.
Most out-of-town guests will be staying in Santa Fe, which we highly recommend.
Camping and RVs are not allowed on the property. However, both the Villanueva State Park and KOA campsites are within 15-20 minutes of the ranch and are highly recommended.
There are numerous hotels in Santa Fe, and their budgets range from economic to luxury. We encourage you to find the accommodations that best fit your travel party.
However, we have secured discounted rates at the following PREFERRED hotels:
Hotel #1
Address 1
Address 2
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Hotel #2
Address 1
Address 2
Phone
Note: You MUST mention the Digby/Taylor Wedding at the time of booking to receive the discounted rate and associated perks.
Note: Shuttles will only be available for pick up/drop off at the preferred hotels mentioned above.
We recommend booking as early as possible, as fall is a popular time to visit Santa Fe.
The deadline for booking a room in the Digby/Taylor hotel room blocks is Saturday, Month Day, Year.
We will do our best to accommodate those who miss the deadlines, but any exceptions are ultimately at the discretion of the hotels.
However, Santa Fe has many great vacation rentals especially in the
Late Afternoon – Ceremony
Immediately After – Cocktail hour
Evening – Dinner, dancing, and
lingering as long as the night allows
We’re getting married on Saturday, September 26, 2026.
The ceremony will take place in the late afternoon, timed to take advantage of cooler temperatures and the soft, golden light that settles over the mesa as the day winds down.
After the ceremony, we’ll move straight into cocktail hour, followed by dinner and dancing as the evening unfolds. There’s no rush and no hard stop – just time to celebrate together under big skies and (very likely) a lot of stars.
We’ll share the exact ceremony time closer to the date, but we recommend planning to arrive earlier in the day and staying through the evening. This is meant to be an unhurried, stay-awhile kind of celebration.
Most guests will be staying in Santa Fe, which we highly recommend as a home base for the weekend. Residing close by means you’ll have convenient access to restaurants, galleries, historic sights, and attractions (like Meow Wolf and the Sky Railway) along with a comfortable place to recharge between events. It also makes transportation simple, since we’ll be providing shuttle service to and from the ranch. Santa Fe is close enough to be connected to the weekend while still offering all the amenities of town.
We understand that hotel life isn’t for everyone. For those who choose not to stay in one of the recommended hotels, we’ll share a short list of suggested neighborhoods to help narrow your search as the event date draws closer.
* Digby/Taylor Wedding Room Rate Available
* Drury Plaza Hotel in Santa Fe
La Fonda on the Plaza
* Hotel Santa Fe Hacienda & Spa
Eldorado Hotel and Spa
